Fishing Without Bait 502: Zeke Mercer: When Passion Needs a Pause

Change doesn’t mean failure—it often means awareness.

In this episode of Fishing Without Bait, Jim Ellermeyer sits down with pro wrestler Zeke Mercer (she/her) for a reflective conversation about burnout, identity, and mindful decision-making. Zeke shares her long-term plan to step away from wrestling after nearly a decade—not because she’s stopped loving it, but because she recognizes the need for balance.

Zeke speaks candidly about physical wear, emotional fatigue, and the danger of allowing wrestling to become the sole definition of who she is. Wrestling has provided community, growth, and purpose, but as this conversation reveals, honoring impermanence can be an act of care rather than loss.

Together, Jim and Zeke explore acceptance, change, and the idea that identity is rooted not in roles, but in values, choices, and non-negotiables. Zeke also reflects on relationships, personal growth, and the courage required to give yourself permission to move forward—even when it’s uncomfortable.

This is Part 1 of a continuing conversation with Zeke Mercer and sets the foundation for a powerful exploration of mindfulness and intentional living.

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