Apr 6

Apr 6 Fishing Without Bait 510: Building a Foundation After Setbacks with Jessie Notarius

What happens when you lose what you thought was your dream job?

In this episode of Fishing Without Bait, Jessie Notarius—also known as The Unwilting Tatiana—returns to share what life has looked like since her last appearance. After losing her position as a set painter for the Pittsburgh CLO due to budget cuts, Jessie found herself navigating uncertainty, disappointment, and a complete shift in direction.

Rather than staying stuck, Jessie adapted. She took on difficult work to make ends meet before landing a role in benefits administration—something completely outside her previous experience. Surprisingly, she found fulfillment in helping others, feeling valued, and contributing in meaningful ways.

But her story doesn’t stop there.

Jessie continues to stay connected to her creative passions through professional wrestling and visual art. She’s now preparing to sell her artwork locally, taking a calculated risk to expand her creative expression.

Throughout the conversation, the importance of community becomes clear. Jessie credits her family and partner as the foundation that helped her stay grounded through change. Together, they celebrate wins, support each other through challenges, and reinforce the idea that success is rarely achieved alone.

The discussion also touches on mindset—how we often minimize our achievements while amplifying our flaws—and the critical distinction between confidence and arrogance.

Jessie’s journey is a powerful example of resilience, adaptability, and the importance of building a life supported by both inner strength and meaningful relationships.

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